What Do You Think Is Rude On Holiday?
Can wearing a bikini top be the rudest thing ever?
If you are visiting a local island in the Maldives - then yes, very much so! It is almost like spitting in the locals faces if you want to relate it to our ideals. I mean the thought of women baring their shoulders in the Maldivian culture is very offensive and can make local women very uncomfortable.
It also creates a boundary between the people who actually live there and the tourists who want to visit these islands.
And it isn’t just these Indian Ocean islands that have something that seems to normal to us to be so offensive to local communities.
Why Act Like The Local People?
Well, if you relate it to something in western culture it always makes a lot more sense - for example most people in the US would be offended if tourists began to walk into peoples front yards and having lunch, or pushing to the front of shopping queues in the UK.
However, some Americans are happy to wander around a church taking pictures and eating ice creams, or British parents allowing their children to climb all over city monuments or scream and run around in local stores or museums.
I am only using these 2 as examples, but there are plenty of other things that travellers don’t think twice about - yet are so rude in the eyes of others.
I mean some people are even this rude when visiting places in their own country! However, when trying to experience another culture, you need to at least research the basics and try to blend in with the community you plan to visit.
Even the basics can bridge the gap between you and the people you are hoping to communicate with during your stay.
Culture differences are always important, but even more so when language is already a barrier, and different religions or beliefs can only make things worse and the difference even greater.
It doesn’t take a minute to learn a few polite phrases and some of the most important ‘don’ts’ of the location you plan to visit - so please take the time to do so and make your visit better for the people you are visiting as well as yourself and your family!

